One of my friends lost out in the race of love which is not unusual, given that so many people go through a similar kind of feeling at least once in life. (Including me... Sob! Sadly!!~!!)
In the end she was bitter about the whole experience. (Anyone would be). Then came the denial phase where in she was bugged bout anything remotely related to having a relationship with anyone for the rest of her life (as she says in her frame of mind)
“What’s the use?” she said. “It always ends badly”, “Nothing good comes of it”…. “In the end all you are left with is pain and regrets”
That is one interesting point of view on life. Should one keep on the safe side of the road and not venture into the unknown. Just lead a simple life with no spice, but with the assurance that you wouldn’t get the pain or the hurt or the REGRETS. Not even try to go to a place where one puts everything out there, in a try to feel good, feel connected, feel safe, feel loved, and feel wanted?
A life which has not felt all the pains can never reap the pleasures of the joys. But this doesn’t gel well with a person who just got dissed in the midst of it all.
My take on this is everything and I mean EVERYTHING good or bad comes to an end. In matters of the heart, you put yourself out there, and try. Whether you win or you loose. It all has to come to an end someday …………..somewhere ……………..somehow. So one should not stop one’s natural instincts to act or react to a situation contemplating the regrets which will come out of it. That essentially would kill the true person you are as you don’t act in accordance with what you feel inside.
And as far as regrets……………….. I say give me regrets…………… give me all the REGRETS….. Till I get to keep all the good memories too.
In the end she was bitter about the whole experience. (Anyone would be). Then came the denial phase where in she was bugged bout anything remotely related to having a relationship with anyone for the rest of her life (as she says in her frame of mind)
“What’s the use?” she said. “It always ends badly”, “Nothing good comes of it”…. “In the end all you are left with is pain and regrets”
That is one interesting point of view on life. Should one keep on the safe side of the road and not venture into the unknown. Just lead a simple life with no spice, but with the assurance that you wouldn’t get the pain or the hurt or the REGRETS. Not even try to go to a place where one puts everything out there, in a try to feel good, feel connected, feel safe, feel loved, and feel wanted?
A life which has not felt all the pains can never reap the pleasures of the joys. But this doesn’t gel well with a person who just got dissed in the midst of it all.
My take on this is everything and I mean EVERYTHING good or bad comes to an end. In matters of the heart, you put yourself out there, and try. Whether you win or you loose. It all has to come to an end someday …………..somewhere ……………..somehow. So one should not stop one’s natural instincts to act or react to a situation contemplating the regrets which will come out of it. That essentially would kill the true person you are as you don’t act in accordance with what you feel inside.
And as far as regrets……………….. I say give me regrets…………… give me all the REGRETS….. Till I get to keep all the good memories too.
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